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Born in 1974 in a family of 5, I was deprived to sit for my Ordinary level examinations by my father in favour of my brothers. My mother had no voice since he said he paid lobola and a waste of resources. I was hurt but to no avail. He ordered me to run his shop without any appreciation citing that family belongings were for his sons and I was useless in my father’s eyes. Family members influenced me to marry a businessman to boost family welfare.
I got married at a tender age and I thought this would end my problems, instead, they worsened. My husband wanted a baby boy failure of which he would marry a second wife. I was in charge of one of our businesses but hardly controlled finances and I had no bank account. My life was just like that of a child in the family due to the failure of family care work. In 1997 my husband ordered me to go to our rural area citing traditional and cultural beliefs such as “Musha mukadzi”.
We were forced to join politics and that was my first opportunity to interact with others. My political history started as Youth Treasurer, Branch Chairlady. From 2005 to date I’m the secretary for Mainboard. In 2004 I was elected councillor for ward 1 and that was the time I was fully engaged in gender work. I’m a policymaker, mentor, ward development chair, ex-officio member in ward sub-committees, HCOC Vice secretary, Council Gender Committee Chair, Council Vice-chair, Mash East Women In Local Government Forum (WILGF) chair, Mash East chapter member, WILGF National Executive member, Africa Union chairperson for women’s forum. I have noticed that positive change is possible meaning there is life after being hurt if one is empowered.
Part of my objectives is committed to working as a team in order to eliminate all harmful cultural practices and norms that hinder women’s participation until we achieve 50/50 representation. Other objectives include:
As a ward, council gender committee and Mash East WILGF chairperson I facilitated the following developments in my ward, council and province:
The following challenges have been encountered:
As an individual, my attitude and behaviour changed towards people living with HIV/Aids. I managed to attend a Training of trainers on the legal framework, which has helped me to develop skills in action planning, Lobbying, advocacy, ICT, Professional networking, Media, Conflict resolution, confidence and role modelling. I also gained knowledge on property ownership, grooming and etiquette. I pursued an educational qualification and have since sat for and passed my Ordinary level English.
I have gained the respect of the community because of the exposure I have gained. My family, community, council and all gender organizations have contributed a lot towards the change in me.
Maliki Israel, the chairperson of the Finance committee of council testified that “Alderman Resta Dzvinyangoma is a force to reckon with in terms of council business and specifically the gender championship initiative. She transformed herself from a semi-literate politician to a seasoned politician of note whose attitude to chamber business is excellent. She gained a lot of confidence as a policymaker earning herself the title of alderman, something that most women councillors have failed to achieve. Given the opportunity and capacity to develop her personal attributes, she is capable of doing far greater things for council”.
Changes have been noted at the household level as there is improved budgeting within the family. My husband started a gum plantation and drilled a bush pump to ease the walking distance for firewood and water fetching. “It was not easy to accept my wife’s ideas. Because of the training on gender equality, equity and gender-based violence, we have changed in attitude, behaviour and we now share responsibilities. We no longer experience hunger, poverty, discrimination, GBV, gossiping and we are no longer power-hungry. I am regretting the time I wasted underrating my wife due to our cultural beliefs; otherwise, we should have done better in our time. Thumbs up to all players in gender work we are now a happy and respected family”, said her husband.
At the institutional level, many positive developments have been noted as a result of her efforts and these include:
At a policy level, I lobbied for successful council and ward gender committees, influenced council policy to adapt ward junior committees so that the junior council can deliberate effectively issues affecting the youths. Being a gender committee and council’s vice-chairperson I influenced the formulation of numerous policies including Gender policy, Stand allocation policy, HIV /AIDS policy, Sexual Harassment policy, Climate change policy, Recruitment policy, Policy on ending child marriages and working with traditional leadership, law enforcement agencies and other partners on enforcing by-laws. I also participated in the marriage bill during Parliamentary hearings and in the highest national dialogue 2019 and proposed for the extension of the quota system in the constitution (temporary measure). I participated in Ethiopia on the CSW 62 on policies on promoting gender equality and equity, and in the African People’s summits in Namibia as a mentor where youths were advocating for policies that protect their rights.
Some of the lessons I learned include the need to build the capacity of communities in gender, so as to change mindsets around the topic. I have also learnt that restrictive cultural practices, laws and regulations are still in place and they are disadvantage women and girls in different ways. There is a lack of political will to drive the gender agenda as in some areas gender issues are being viewed as a women’s issue. Achieving 50/50 representation is a process which needs all stakeholders’ involvement in achieving gender targets.
Going forward I will continue advocating for more girls to go to higher education and educating the community on girls’ re-entry to school because there is always life after a bad experience. I will also keep pushing for an extension of the quota system in the constitution with additional seats from 60 to 100 as a temporary measure for 2023 elections and a new proposal on equal representation at all levels.