Linah Phuti Ngoepe

I learned a lot of things from these trainings that can help me to survive. I have started attending this training at Matlala VEP in 2013 that is where I have learned that when you have problems you have to share them with other people. I started with Khuseleka in 2013 March. I became strong, accepted my situation, forgave those who have wronged me and after doing all those things I was at peace. Today I am progressing, I also teach my children to be independent. All this is because of Matlala VEP, Khuseleka and Gender Links.
It is true a lot of women stay in an abuse relationship because they depend on their partners financially. The community is seeing a huge difference in my life; they see me as an active woman the one who helps people when they need help. When there is a funeral in the community I go and help out and if the bereaved family is financially challenged I offer them my services (Decorating and Catering) for free.
Yes the community is now respecting me because they know that I help families that are financially challenged. Today I am able to assist people who experience problems in their lives and also to refer them to police stations, Social Workers or other organizations that are relevant to their needs. When I see children roaming around the streets not going to school, I guide them and tell them about the importance of education. I work part time at a Tuck shop in the community and when boys come to buy cigarettes I educate them about the dangers of smoking. They end up being appreciative of the advice I give them.
I have learned about the importance of entrepreneurship. I know how to run a business through the teaching of the facilitator in the Gender Links entrepreneurship workshops that I attended and can take care of my business and won’t let it fall apart, like not to take money from the business and spend it on other things.
In the year 2030 I would like to be successful have money and businesses in South Africa. I would like to empower women who are going through the same problems as I did in the past and more.